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PHENOMENA UNEXPLAINED: MAN TALK WOMAN, COMBUSTION & US ELECTION

Unexplained Phenomena

I wish I couild tie you up in my shoes, make you feel unpretty too. I was told I was beautiful, but what does that mean to you. –  UNPRETTY by TLC

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from 2008, TLC with UNPRETTY

                                                                         

 

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PHENOMENA UNEXPLAINED: MAN TALK WOMAN,
COMBUSTION & US ELECTION
written & edited by Kendall F. Person

MAN TALK WOMAN

We are not talking about the coming of age years when a boy’s self-confidence is as fragile or more so than a girls’, for it is a well documented fact, that girls mature at an earlier age. We are not speaking of the transition into manhood, when young men beat their chests in an attempt to be treated like a man, yet still wet behind the ears. We are not reminiscing about a drunken bachelors party, when male bonding traditions often make it rain. But even then, the women dancers are respected irregardless of their current profession. We are not replaying a joke told by a comedian as part of a routine, that was only funny in context, nor rehashing a one liner from a movie, that portrays the villain or advances the plot. We are not on the subject of the Taliban or any other regime that defines women as less than leaders or equals or nurturers of society or President of a Nation.

 

 Link to video, apology and synopsis of story

Phenomena

Woman by Morre Christophe

As full grown men in our 50s & 60s, with wives or sisters and mothers and nieces and daughters or believers in equality and justice and liberation and freedom, not even in locker rooms or on poker night or during business trips  does man  – as a whole or even on the average – talk woman in such sexual abstract possessive dominance. If we did, the hypocrisy of “who in the hell do we think we are” would gnaw at us every time we offer wisdom to our sons or nephews or young men of any demographic, struggling to find meaning or are challenged with respect  – both giving and receiving – or lacking role models in the immediate circumference of their worlds — for it would wreak havoc on our consciousness. And even if no one knew, it would be an unexplained and unnecessary internal burden of shame to carry and blight on our contribution and legacy as we move toward the twilight years.

 

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COMBUSTION

In 1725, in Rheims, France, an innkeeper would began a frantic search for his bride. Having covered the grounds as completely as he could, Nicole Millet – his wife – seemingly vanished without a trace. He would go on to face murder charges for the death of his wife. The courts finding him guilty, to some, only because there was no other explanation. But he would file a successful appeal, that would clear his given name, and depending upon our acceptance of the beginning of life, the appeals court either acted illogically, or we accept the courts final opinion, which cites the cause of death as a visitation from God. 

Combustion

photo by Anthony Delanoix

It is quite understandable how the remains of Nicole Millet’s body could have been overlooked, even though they rested on a chair, in plain site of all who searched. The Inn was intact. No signs of flames, inside or out. The room where her charred remains were discovered, was clear of any dark soot or smoke. Even the chair in which she had sat, was un-scorched by the inferno that engulfed her.

Differing accounts exists, but even if you are a skeptic or accept a scientific explanation, Nicole Millet’s demise, was not a singular occurrence. It is known as spontaneous human combustion, an inferno implodes within the body, burning it to ashes from the inside out. And while arguments are made on both sides of the aisle, the power of a deity versus a medical device; how the human body could, without warning or a catalyst to set it off, simply bursts into flames, is a phenomena that remains unsolved.

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Hypnotism is trespass into the territory of another’s consciousness. Its temporary phenomena have nothing in common with the miracles preformed by men  [and women] of divine realization. –  Paramahansa Yogananda 

 
US ELECTION

 

From the nation’s largest newspapers, to Evangelical leaders, from the military brass to Presidentscurrent and Presidents past to all demographics: White, Black, Latino and Asian. Men & Women: handicapped, blue collar  PhD and  LGBTQ. From Veterans and the active duty, to believers in democracy with an allegiance to the red, white & blue: shall we unite behind Her as one nation with dignity and strength and prevent an unexplained phenomena of a Trump Presidency.
— thepublicblogger 
*Combustion – The Lives We Live a reality Show 4th Dismissal

IN REVERSE: Two Decades After Million Man March

Knowledge is power. Information is liberating. Education is the premise of progress, in every society, in every family.
– Kofi Annan, former Secretary General, United Nations

 

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from Tel Aviv Israel, Ofir J Rock with Desert Dance 

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Hail Mary 2 Decades After the Million Man March

October 16, 1995 Capitol Mall, Washington DC Million Man March

“What’s the next move ? Since then a new generation has grown up,they need directions. Where have all the men gone?”  –  Question posted by a Facebook reader under a post via The Grio with the above photo captioned On this Day in History
IN REVERSE: Two Decades After The Million Man March
written & edited by Kendall F. Person

I boarded the flight in Kingston, Jamaica and six hours later touched down in my nation’s capitol, Washington D.C.  Once into the fairways, the noticeable difference was instant, and if a person did not know, they would have been inclined to ask if something was going on. It was not just the overwhelming presence of African American men, nor was it simply the feeling that I was about to be a part of history, that drew me in, but rather the awareness of being inside a revolutionary change. But the United States is the 4th largest nation by area and 3rd most populated country on earth, so change to me, growing up on the west coast, far removed from any Mason-Dixon line, born after the Civil Rights Era, learning of Jim Crow through family stories and  history books, and never embracing the thought, that I was limited as to what I could achieve, and raised under the parental guidance of education or bust, change to me may be very different than change to another African American man, and the idea that we all think or react alike,or are in need of the same things, is a premise that should have long since been put to rest But for some reason, that eludes many to this day, when the Nation of Islam’s Minister Louis Farrakhan called, more than a million of us came.Million Man March

A new generation has emerged and the staggering advancements in technology has them entering a brand new world. In theory, and I would like to think in practice as well, young men born in or becoming citizens of the United States of America would stand on equal platforms if stripped of their personal identities, leaving only the color of their skin. But then the Birther show reemerges,  reminding us that the old guard, in some places, still stands, and  then a chain of violence erupts in Chicago thrusting us back to  the late-1980’s when violence in Black neighborhoods, nearly ripped the fabric of family and community from beneath us, and then another shooting of unarmed Black man, this time the video is clear, he was shot with his hands up in the air. Then with each peril, the cultivators of lies get top billing, giving the world a view that America is still a racist cesspool, which is simply not true,  and giving people like Carole Spicer-Groomes of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania reason to riddle this question, “What’s the next move ? Since then a new generation has grown up,they need directions. Where have all the men gone?” 

million man marchImmediately following The Million Man March, controversy regarding attendance blasted off, overshadowing all else, specifically, the need to comprehend, to recap, to ponder the reasons why we were there. Without question, the event was an unparalleled success. Well over a million Black men stood for eleven hours together, under the mild autumn sun, collectively awaiting an answer, but one would never come. Not that the multitude of speakers and entertainers did not deliver and excite. And there may have been some disappointment in Mr. Farrakhan’s decision to cover a magnitude of issues in a speech that was much too long, but because unlike the Civil Rights March led by Martin Luther King, Jr. in 1963, there was no national unifying monster, like the right to vote, to pursue and obtain an equal education or even the right to sit at the front of a bus.

I am Black and I am an American, proud in equal parts of both. But being measured by either, in a techno-savvy age, when the whole wide world is within reach, is confining, limiting, and rather we know it, believe it or accept, it can also be suffocating. October 16, 1995, was important individually as to why we went, and trying to give it a group demographic perspective, two decades later, is not only unfair to the March itself, but does little to solve the issues in our own families, neighborhoods, schools and communities, that our happening now. The United States is a multi-racial society. We maintain  a global leadership role, we operate some of the most respected institutions of higher learning, and we landed on the moon decades ago, yet we still struggle with the issue as to why we allow and place so much emphasis on color; and we still are challenged by the notion, that each man is responsible for himself, and that each family must produce role models within their clans, and that each community is better when working together in supporting our children: to unlock the power of, then unleash their potential, and that each state serves as a resource for growth, and that this one nation, under God, indivisible stands tall for liberty and justice for all.million man march

Ms. Spicer-Groomes, I applaud you for your nerve and willingness to ask such a tough question in a public forum like Facebook, and you certainly deserve an answer: The men have not gone anywhere. They are in Philadelphia working hard, raising families, building businesses and trying to make a difference. They are in Sacramento developing programs, building futures. They are in Detroit and Atlanta and Providence and Denver and in Washington D.C., but all do not commandeer the microphone or a guest spot on t.v. They are white and black and latino and asian and arab and Christian and Muslim and young and old, but the voices of reason are often out shined by the violence and indecision, that sometimes we prefer to see. And maybe if we believe that nothing has changed, we are not forced to look internally, questioning ourselves, “Am I doing my part?”  The Neighborhood is a loved and respected source, and even though our numbers are noticeably growing, we are still a small voice. But we throw a Hail Mary anyway, for it matters not the size of our contribution, only that one is made. And one day, who knows, our small, peaceful voices united together, may lead to wider discussions and solutions not based on race.

– an editorial from thepublicblogger

 

 

 

 

 

cover photo million man march courtesy of steadystevie_wssu

THE DEBATE

THE DEBATE

We don’t need no education. We don’t need no thought control. No dark sarcasm in the classroom. Teacher, leave those kids alone. – Pink Floyd

from 1979, Pink Floyd with Another Brick in the Wall

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It has become a spectacle more so than a  Presidential debate, but that is exactly what it is, and yet no heavy weight bout or triple crown run or Super Bowl Sunday has ever carried the burden of Leader of the Free World and President of the United States. And no matter, that the 2016 election cycle feels like an episode of our favorite or most hated show, and the excitement over the bombastic  has delivered gravitas to untruthfulness, which is now en vogue. And with 80% of voters polled, awaiting for the debate to simply cheer their candidate on, it is that 20% of the uncommitted that will tune in for a monumental and historic moment, and not a reality show, that wasn’t.

THE DEBATE
September 26, 2016

 

 

When the undecided voters see the  candidates on the same stage,  and when they  watch their interactions, and when they listen to questions of the moderator and then study their responses, what will guide them in their decision, what will spark them to make a choice? And will that choice become a hero or heroine, emblazoned in the hearts and minds of youth, always searching for a role model to emulate or a rock star to follow.

photos:
Girl
 by  Joanna  Mrowka
untitled by  Frank McKenna

 

The debate

Untitled by Tim Gouw

And when they watch from countries around the globe, what will they be thinking? If the moderator, who has a herculean task, is unable or unwilling to maintain the dignity of the hour, will the rest of the world be saddened  by the undignified collapse of the beacon of hope and reason or will the dominoes begin to fall, as each nation finds a leader that sees a vacuum and believes they can fill it.

 

 


Back in the states, the 20 percenters, will try to listen with an open mind, clearing the slate of days gone by. But no matter how hard they try, they will still wonder about bans or walls or someday when they achieve, will they suddenly become others on home soil, birthers in their native land.  Or will they feel overwhelmed and uninspired and helpless and not tune in or to their detriment and others, not bother to cast their vote

 

by Luka Zanon
by Spencer Plat via Getty Images
by Jorge Barahona

 

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by Jakub Kriz 

And with so much hate, that will be staring at her, and with the occasion  even higher as the first woman to stand in her shoes at this juncture of the plateau, can she find a way to reach a nation, whose division has become more pronounced, Or with so many believing she is unfit, can she become the Commander in Chief to the 20 percent?

 

 

Has the 80% been hardened by a tough life? Have they lost their jobs or in fear of their lives? Or is that what we were told to believe and that is good enough? Or will the great debate find us all remembering  the great nation we live in and  the gladiator style arena, becomes more tranquil and we settle in to listen to  issues that affect our children? And we smile, not that we are any less confused  and  hesitant, since the burden  is on us to choose, but because the thespian losses his grip, as the moderator says NO to a three ringed circus,  and the 2016 election cycle, is spared the humiliation of falling by the wayside.

 

Hot Air by Gianandrea Villa
Scared by Dimitry Ratushny
Hello by Michael Mims

 

Friendly Debate

by Joshua Clay

When it is over, the big deal that was made, will  live up to its name, but perhaps a civil tone will be set and truthfulness we will get, and the theatrics be not on display and the roman Colosseum will  have been just hype and perhaps the debate will be nothing more than that.
thepublicblogger

A WOMAN NAMED ELLEN

President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf

The West African Nation of Liberia, founded and settled as a homeland for freed African-American and Caribbean slaves, is the oldest democratic republic on the African continent, and the second oldest Black republic, followed Haiti.

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Sweet Liberia performed and shared by David G. Music

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A Woman Named Ellen 
by Kendall F. Person

By most accounts, she is an ordinary woman, who created an extraordinary life. An in-depth article in The New York Times magazine, details how Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf’s drive and determination began at a very early age. So determined to win a fistfight over a plum, a nine-year-old Ellen would ask her grandmother to make a potion – a fighting medicine – that would be cut directly into her skin, giving her the best chance to win.

She would need that grit, that inner power for the rest of her life, as her long road in coming of age would lead her into a fight on the international stage. At age 17, she would change course and follow her man. He led her away from her home country of Liberia to Wisconsin, the dairy-land of America’s 50 states. Her desires and ambitions, however, could not be muted, so as her husband pursued his masters degree at the University of Wisconsin, she would enroll at a local college and take on a part-time job, believing she was contributing to her family. Her husband, a weak minded man, would charge into her place of employment, grab the mop out of her arms and demand she return home. And that would only be the beginning.

President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf

President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf

They would eventually return home, as Ellen felt the call to lead her people. And as her career in government would take off, her husband would be devoured by alcohol, jealousy and rage. She would become the minister of finance, and in an unbelievable show of disrespect for women and his nation, her husband would stalk into her office and slap her in the face. But Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf’s resilience could not be denied. And as her husband slowly sank into oblivion, her star would quickly rise. She became the candidate of the people, determined to lead her nation out of poverty and give them a democratic country free of corruption from its head of state.

In a final, desperate attempt to bring his wife under his control, he would pull a gun on the people’s candidate for President of Liberia, and threatened to blow her to kingdom come – if she did not pull out of the race. She thought about her people and all their hard work. She thought about the struggle of every Liberian boy and girl; and Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf would stand her ground. With the help of her son, who sprayed poison in his face, the coward would back down. And days later, Ellen would become the first woman in history, to be elected as leader of an African nation.


On September 14,
meet Nadine, Flower, Lisa, IvySoul Marie and Shirley.
The Challenges of A Woman.

Challenges of A Woman

A WOMAN NAMED KIM

Kim Hye-Sook

No one saves us but ourselves. – Buddha

 

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A Woman Named Kim
by Kendall F. Person

A casual glance at Kim Hye-Sook, plays tricks on the mind. While everyone of us has a story, hers you still may not believe, if you only see her out of the corner of your eyes. Somewhere in her 50’s, exact age is unknown, she looks like an every day Mom, no visible scars to match the pain buried deep inside. But if you hear Kim Hye-Sook tell her story, of the horrors and crimes against humanity she faced, that pain that tumbles outward is matched only by the power of the intensity in her eyes.Kim Hye-Sook

She is North Korean by birth, blood and ancestry, but you would not know it by the way her own nation treated her. Imprisoned at age 13, she, and three generations of her family, paid an extraordinary price, for her grandfather’s freedom. Tortured, nearly dying of starvation and forced to watch, as a child younger than she, was brutality beaten to death for stealing a few, worn kernels of corn. Outliving her mother, a brother, released with two siblings left behind, armed only with a faint belief – if any – of a Higher Power, whom had a plan for her, far greater than the Dear Leader of North Korea.

In four short years following her release, this hungry, desperate woman with no family and only a Peter Pan-like knowledge of a better place…. escaped the most isolated and oppressive kingdom on planet earth.


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