
Honorable Mentions: Assassination of Martin Luther King, Million Man March,
Voting Rights Act of 1965, Trolls/Ranters & Dreamers

“All of my folks came to America
to be Americans, not hyphenated Americans.”
– Jack Kingston with Don Lemon, CNN
Hands Up
by H-y Loco feat. Camacauz-Z
A successful survey, offers insight well beyond the intended needs and expectant goals. Even if we answer not a single question, by showing up or registering, we have become an accidental statistic. Not so much in relationship to the question on hand, but in a comprehensive look of human nature. Multiple Choice, Yes/No and a system of ranking answers, by way of someone else’s thoughts, while customary, the rigid parameters, rather created as subliminal manipulation or condensed into a 10-second window – for impatient online consumers – serve a valued purpose, but for who?
The One Question Survey was developed shortly after I began formulating my own list. I realized, almost immediately, that the topic was much bigger, than any one person’s opinion – referring to myself. After google-ing and finding no direct matches, the idea of a public poll became the solution to seeking answers of an unasked question. Momentum built quickly and by the time polls closed, the most participants ever in our 5 surveys over the course of as many years, saved the day, as the near 80% drop off, from the number of participants that read the question, to the number that provided an answer, would have sunk us. But instead, it has provided just enough insight, to warrant an in depth look on the subject of Human Nature.
But as for today…..
The Question (Q1): What is the greatest missed opportunity, that could have altered the reality of race, as our foremost identity, before the idea of identifying ourselves and seeing others as Americans first?
Optional Question (Q2): What is the City where you live or the City you call home?

THE RESULTS:
THE TOP 5 MISSED OPPORTUNITIES,
FOR ‘AMERICAN’ TO COME BEFORE ‘RACE’.
developed by Kendall F. Peson
with contributions by Poll Participants
“Seeing Native Americans as the first Americans.” – Cambria, CA
First Contact edged its way into the top 5, by way of a reluctant tiebreaker. But in the end, the poetry in the lack of words is so beautiful, it makes perfect sense. Cambria’s single sentence, was 5 words longer than all other entries, each simply writing: Native Americans. With the exception of number 3, there is no other choice with such a shared consensus and understanding, as to the missed opportunity when the settlers arrived in the new world and made first contact with Native Americans.

“Specifically identifying that all humans are equal, regardless of race, creed, color, gender, sexual orientation, etc, directly in the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution.” – Unknown
“I’d have to say it was writing in the 3/5ths clause. I think this was the slippery slope which both exposed the real thinking of the people who set up this country, and also allowed such sloppy nonsense to proliferate for many generations to come. If they had grappled with reality and admitted the basic humanity of every person in this country, we would have been able to untangle ourselves from that mental trap a lot sooner.” – Unknown ***(Named Best Individual Answer)***
“The election of Barack Obama.” – Columbia, Maryland
While two ‘missed opportunities’ polled higher, neither of those can compare to the election of the first Black President. After he won the election, there was a sincere and shared emotion, that the race dance was finally over. But alas, it was not to be. In the first election after Barack Obama termed out, the alt-right became a main player in the election of Donald Trump.

“After the civil war and the freedom of slaves, a corner of America should have been given to free slaves to build their economic freedom. After Lincoln freed the slaves, 40 acres and a mule was promised, but reneged on. If African Americans could have been given that land and call it New Africa, I believe that would have changed our reality and most likely the relationship between the races. We could have built our own greatness and leadership.” – Marysville
“I think the abolition of slavery. Slavemaster’s didn’t want the free labor to end so slavery didn’t officially end until 1863 when it was ratified. Prejudice is taught so we now live in a time where it has been taught for over 400 years. Our society would be different (not entirely) if prejudice had been ratified too but feelings can’t be. If people’s feelings toward people of color had begun to change in 1863, then maybe we wouldn’t know the names of strangers….Tamir Rice, Sandra Bland…..” – Sacramento
With few exceptions, conquered nations are not allowed to erect and fly their battle flag. Specifically at the end of a long and costly Civil War. Over 150 years since the surrender of the Confederate Army and the fall of the Confederacy, monuments are just starting to come down, and flags lowered on state grounds. If trend continues, it offers the deep south’s next generation a fair chance to escape a racist past.

TransAtlantic Slave Trade / Hold of Slave Ship
“I am afforded the privilege of race not being considered foremost in my identity. I’m a white male. From a distance I’d say that perhaps if the more deadly weapons of war were adopted first by nations where people of color were the dominant population there might be a different outcome, but by so easily putting down native peoples on multiple continents, northern euros were quick to espouse the divine right narrative.”
– New Providence, New Jersey
There is a certain logic New Providence presents, that can be debated, but denied. If Natives in the Americas and Africans on the Motherland, had been ready, not just to defend their own shores, but equally determined to conquer and enslave the white race in Europe, perhaps they would have battled to a draw and everyone would have just stayed put.
But events of the day – like long time nemesis Russia’s bold cyberattack on American democracy, or the awakening of China: the sleeping giant, turned world power; or living under the real and constant threat of a nuclear attack, as the Hermit Kingdom boasts the capability to back up its once idle threats – offers equal if not greater than credence, to the flipside: if every nation had been equally stoked with world domination, and equally yoked in its arsenal of firepower, mankind may have annihilated itself a long time ago.
Nonetheless, race as an American struggle, has outlasted all international wars, and with only intensity varying, it has been the same song playing since 1607, yet we continue the race dance, as if it is somehow new.
— written & edited by Kendall F. Person
An Extra: Voices of Trolls, Ranters & Dreamers
“This survey is gonna be filled with right-wing revisionist history.” – Salt Lake City
“Back in slave days, it ought to have continued as making slaves of those we defeated in war and never about “trade”- Unknown
“I guess for me it was the day we all forgot that we are one race: the human race.” – Oakville, Ontario Canada
Results to One Question Survey in Graphs & Numbers
on Facebook

“Everyone takes surveys.
Whoever makes a statement
about human behavior has engaged
in a survey of some sort.” – Andrew Greeley
Updated Aug 10th at 2:16am PST/5 EST
THE RESULTS ARE IN:
The Top 5 Missed Opportunities for ‘American’ to Come Before ‘Race’

Update: CBS Baltimore reports, that shortly after 5:00pm EST, a 24-year-old man was pronounced dead after being fatally shot in Baltimore Maryland. And for confirmation that this ceasefire has been broken, another murder reported at what would have been hour 46.
“We know that a successful ceasefire is usually preceded by a failure–
even lots of failures.” – Kroc Institute of International Peace Studies*
from Baltimore Maryland
the one & only… Txny Supreme with Way Too Often
HOUR 41
written & edited by Kendall F. Person
Season III: The Quest for Peace ran from May through December of 2014, only 3 years ago and yet, so much has happened since, that it feels much much longer. One of the few recurring themes, and one of only two that last a full week, Our Week of Peace, designed to be an annual affair, with a full week of discussion, art, debate and a search for answers, culminating in a big peace sign parade.
There are other factors for sure, that led to the near cancellation of Our Week of Peace 2017, but they are either mute or talking points. Since the beginning of time, in every civilization, when peace is on the line or introduced into a conflict, it immediately finds itself in a fight for survival, let alone domination of any kind. 
Then the next year is tougher and bleaker and Peace seems more elusive than before. So we try to convince ourselves, that we have done our part and that, peace has become archaic, relegated to the 60s and Hippies like Gary Gautier. But then the murder of a 24-year-old man in a city 3000 miles away, becomes heavy on our mind, as we ponder the reality: that his city could not save him, but dear Jesus they tried. and we are saddened and inspired.
Hour 41 – barely half past the 72 hour Baltimore Ceasefire goal – according to CBS Local, a 24-year-old man was shot and killed in Baltimore, Maryland. It is indeed a tragedy of national proportions, not only because of everything a murder represents, but because Baltimore Ceasefire has made it okay to walk a different way in trying to make their city a safer place.
“Only 20 percent of the time do ceasefires
take hold from the start. Because they outline
a roadmap for future negotiations…”*
– Professor Madhav Joshi
In truth, the people of Baltimore, were simply unable to prevent an unknown gunman, at an unknown time in an unknown location from pulling the trigger, and gunning down an unknown victim. But because they had the guts and the passion and pure ingenuity, they forced us all to think, to imagine the possibilities in building a better us and making contributions to our neighborhoods and beyond. Led by local activist Erricka Bridgeford, who attracted nearly as much attention as a Trump tweet, Baltimore Ceasefire shifted the spotlight away from US Attorney General Jeff Sessions’ perplexing threat to withhold crime-fighting federal government resources from Baltimore and 3 other cities, (go figure)*** — to a community-focused, solution-oriented, conversation about what plagues them.
“No one can negotiate for durable peace when fighting is ongoing, But we should
be reacting to the contents of the ceasefire…” – Keough School of Global Affairs
The sincerity in Baltimore Ceasefire’s straightforward slogan ‘Nobody Kill Anybody For 72 Hours’ even gave cynics reason to hope the ceasefire held. Not just for its raw honesty, but in its stereotype-busting affirmation, that they are neither comfortable nor accepting of their ‘holy-cow’ murder rate. But more importantly, when there is a void, crime fills the vacuum – that we already knew – but the content of the ceasefire effort confirmed, that leadership and creative thinking, can be found in equal parts, inside the vacuum effect too.
The Neighborhood’s 3rd Annual ‘Our Week of Peace’ begins August 21st.
*Why broken ceasefires are actually good for peace,
Public Radio International (PRI)
**The Neighborhood Anthology on Leadership & Authority
***Cities baffled why Jeff Sessions targets them on immigration,
Washington Post
–Shout to Keith Mon, Thank you for the photograph. So good to have you back.
Rank does not confer privilege or
give power, it imposes responsibility.
– Peter Drucker
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Bridgette Cooper-Anderson
with Orpheus With His Lute
The 10 Most Underrated Responsibilities
by Kendall F. Person
They may not appear on Time Magazine’s’ Most Influential List, but they have sent representatives, at sometime or another. As a group, there is no single voice that sings louder, it’s the collective song that is heard. In their roles, they are honored, but they also take the brunt of the storm. In the mirror, it is their hopes and dreams they see, but in their eyes, it is the hopes and dreams of many. A burden each carries, that stretches beyond their reach, tis true. And while some may fall or break or crack or spin out of control, we know, collectively they possess the will and the fortitude to carry on, even when noone is watching.

There is hardly an entity, that does not maintain a wealth of volunteers. Hospitals, universities, government, each relies on an unpaid staff to deliver the little things, the nuances, that make each operate a bit more efficiently, with glee. In the nonprofit world, often times, volunteers are the engine, that moves and shakes the ground. When the housing bubble burst and the economy collapsed, many government services were upended and in some cases, wiped out.
But volunteer organizations like The Sacramento Friends of the Public Library helped to fill the gaps – through advocacy, fundraising and by providing critical support to the city wide library system – assisting in keeping our knowledge and historical centers going strong. Volunteers are often at the forefront of social movements, and among the first responders during natural disasters. And volunteers often contribute, not for any recognition, but because they are passionate about supporting something, that means something to them.

In October of 1995, I had the great fortune to attend the Million Man March. I do not remember many of the speakers from that day, although, Maya Angelou’s appearance on the steps of my nation’s capitol was certainly memorable, but I do remember the atmosphere quite vividly, the festive spirit, the love of one another that resonated and glided through the air.
To be in Washington DC on that warm autumn day, with a million other men and women from all over the country and I believe, some parts of the world, standing shoulder to shoulder for hours, in a solidarity of peace, love and respect of each other and ourselves is what truly defined that day. Controversy found a way to rear its deceptive head, by way of the number of people who stood on Capitol Mall that day. A co-worker asked, with nothing but sincerity, “The event was a success, why does it matter how many people were there?” My response was simply, “Because history matters.”

Have you ever cast your ballot for a candidate, that you have never heard speak and have no idea if he or she represents the best interests for you and your family and your community? Have you ever stood firmly on an issue, even when you do not have a horse in the race? Have you ever said “I don’t believe that,” even before you have heard the other person speak? Each of us, ultimately, must live and die for ourselves, but in the meantime, we share the earth.
The undecideds may or may not belong to a political party or a specific religion, they may hold a PhD or a GED, be male or female and consists of every color and nationality, making the demographic difficult to measure. But what they are is understanding , curious, patient, and hopeful, that if their mind is open, receptive to knowledge, when they cast their ballot, or stake their claim or choose their hill, it is done so with care and with the intent of forward progress and what is best for their community.

There is beauty in the arts, that much we all know. But there exist something more indescribable, perhaps magical is the word I search for. The Arts, in their purest form are transcending, immune to polarization, blinded to hate. Born of imagination, a thought, a sound, a vision from the creative right side of the brain,
The Arts are conceptualized with the whole world in mind, even if in reality most have limited reach. Many have seen Avatar, thousands consider the Philadelphia Museum of Art a national treasure, and nearly all have heard of Shakespeare. I am certain – using the Olympiad as a guide – most nations rise when playing their national anthem, and in the United States, when the familiar music plays, and as everyone in earshot hums along in anticipation of the big finish O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave, in those precious few moments, we are all mentally in the same place.

There is a complexity to farming on a large scale, that flows well beyond the planting of a seed. There are regulations that must be followed, distribution channels to choreograph, and changes of taste of the people they feed. But even when everything goes right, mother nature can send a deep freeze to Florida, destroying all of the crops, devastating their livelihoods. But farming runs in the blood and beyond the business are people who take pride in knowing, they are producing a product, that serves a vital purpose.

Sure, there are opportunist and those who ignore their oath. Yes, there are leaders who have fallen short, and power has overtaken those we entrust to protect and serve, some by design others overwhelmed, unprepared for their chosen path. And if the crack or the seismic fault is coming from the top, there can be a rolling effect on all that follow or are under their command. But most are good people, who truly want to be a trusted, respected and an honorable member of their community within their chosen profession.

Pastor Dave is how the congregation referred to the leader of the church I attended several years ago. For whatever reason, it was a challenge for me to go, even though the Sundays I did attend, provided strength, nourishment and the sincere awareness, that we were not in our struggle alone; and that the church was a place to not only worship, but to feel at peace, energized, and if we could find it nowhere else, Pastor Dave created an environment, of togetherness of community, of building a stronger relationship with Our Lord. He stood firm in his beliefs and of the Book he followed, but he made sure his congregation knew, all were welcome, and that he was just a man, doing his best to lead by example.

In my four years of high school, I cannot remember a single teacher leaving. In contrast, in every job I have ever had, no more than a year would pass without someone moving on to another, similar company or changing careers altogether. Every teacher that I have known and, for whatever reason, reached back or inquired about them, while they may have completed their career on another campus, teaching was still their chosen profession. Their commitment, in many cases, went beyond the requirements set forth by the Department of Education. At some point, and this is my guess, each has an epiphany, that teaching is more than a profession. It is an identity or a calling, and many who answer it, come to comprehend, that the young people in their reach is our future, and the awareness must sink in, their contribution to the circle of life, is much greater than ever imagined.

I was 30 when my Grandmother passed away, so even though it has been nearly twenty years, I remember her very well. She was a wonderful woman with a quiet demeanor, but held a large family together {my Grandfather died before I was born}, simply by her presence. Her legacy passed down into her children, and they in turned passed down the family bond to each of us.
I attended my 30 year high school class reunion, and it was so good to see them. Many of my classmates, were of the first readers to purchase my first novel, Capturing Spring, way back in 1997. I have summered with my stepfather’s family in Tennessee and have direct lines with friends of which, I attended the same university. Today, I am grateful that many of the neighbors in The Neighborhood, are a part of The Village too. In our worlds that matter most, is where we find the inspiration and the motivation, that all alone, may have alluded us for good.

Following our passion sounds bigger than it is. Our sincere passions – our positive contributions – are not bound by record books or compared to anyone else. It is what we have to give. It is what makes us happy or whole or comfortable in saying, this is my legacy. This is my contribution to humanity. Being a loving, supportive parent. Finding the cure for lupus. Making sure the children in our community have school supplies. Building a clinic. Volunteering to visit the elderly. Bringing a championship ring to our city, or running for public office.
The meaning of life is an accumulative endeavor, where each piece builds, supports and enriches the earth. In discovering our passion, it is not long before we find life’s meaning. In fact, we may have already found it, but our eyes are still closed.
– – this is…. The Neighborhood
& The Neighborhood FB
THE CHARLOTTESVILLE CONFIRMATION
Posted on by Kendall Fredrick Person
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the comment
I disagree with the liberal war against Confederate flags and other historical things. I am not certain or overly confident, but I think we can leave history in the open rather than destroy it. Lee was a general for his home. I think we waste our effort by going after him. – Spyro
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from 1993, Now I Feel Ya
by Scarface
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Hello Spyro. Thanks for checking in. Rather I agree with your position or not – which I don’t – your opinion and voice are welcomed and matter. The Neighborhood stands its ground on its all-inclusive foundation. However….
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THE CHARLOTTESVILLE CONFIRMATION
written & edited by Kendall F. Person
Leaving history in the open is what museums and books are for. Towering monuments of defeated war generals, radiate an illusion of victory and the reality of oppression. But if such openness, is harmless and all the rage, than why no replicas of slave ships parked near the Outer Banks. Or auctioning blocks, built to scale, as a constant reminder of bloody hell. Or why not miles and miles of Native American monuments, simulating the trek to Oklahoma, and as markers, why not statues of dead bodies, so that America never forgets the Trail of Tears.
Or, what about Nat Turner, whose rebellion led to the deadliest slave uprising in American history. Lee may have been a General for his home, but Turner was a hero to his people. Although, counted as only 3/5th’s of a man, in 1831 he too was an American. So why not erect a monument of him, and place it in Southampton County – only 150 miles from General Lee in Charlottesville Virginia? Because the descendants of his victims would not tolerate it, even for a day, and I would neither blame nor accuse them of destroying history.
With few exceptions, conquered nations nor organized military or civilian rebels, are allowed to fly their battle flag or erect monuments on government ground, of which they tried to bring down. Nat Turner was executed for his insurrection, which caused the death of 60 people. Confederate Army General Robert E. Lee, never even faced a tribunal for his war crimes, in which 600,000 died. Yet somehow, he gets a statue.
The glaring presence of history, has left a more perfect Union trapped in a confederate box, by a war they lost. In so doing, it has enabled, the passing down of a racist ideology, that may have timed itself out, by now. More than 150 years after the civil war ended, the Charlottesville confirmation delivers a clear path. By taking the monuments down – at last a full surrender – allowing the deep south’s next generation, a fair chance to escape a racist past.
*The Top 5 Missed Opportunities for ‘American’ to Come Before ‘Race’
The March of One
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