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In Mourning: The Neighborhood Remembers One of its Own

The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living.
– Marcus Tullius Cicero

in mourning

Heather Workes June 24, 1978 – May 23, 2014

I’m sorry the Workes have to be on this journey.
Its one no one should ever have to endure. Prayers and hugs. – Aurora*

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from 1984, Diana Ross
with Missing You

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On a rollercoaster, in which we occasionally ride, there are ups and there are downs. The ups are filled with a mix of anticipation, dread, questions and a building excitement, toward what we will face on the other side. The downs, for some are exhilarating. A chance to throw caution to the wind, to scream at the top of our lungs, to be young and carefree again. It is a thrilling adventure, the rollercoaster ride. In a matter of seconds, our minds race with a complex set of emotions. But on the downside, even for those who regret ever taking the ride, stomach in nuts, cries induced by fears, it is but a moment in time, and no matter how afraid we are, we know the ride will come to an end.

But what if you are on the downhill side and you cannot see the end. Try as you might to get off or slow down or simply take a breath, the operator refuses to allow, even the peace of mind to know, that this too shall pass. What if every thing you try – yell, pray, pound your chest, click your heels together and recite in triplet secession, “there’s no place like home”  – fails to make a difference. And what if you had people in your corner, who you knew loved you, and you loved them too, but all of the love that exists around you, and threw you, and is a part of you, has been swept up in the downhill too. Everywhere you look, you see wreckage from your ride, and even though you never wanted to get on, and all around there is love and sincerity to help you get off,  in your mind, there is but one way to make the downhill stop.

No story can be as devastating as that one told in the voice of a child who is abused: 
Heather and Kirby…. you have it {love} from all of us. – JE Buckingham*

I have collaborated with over 100 artists of all genres, from all walks of life and from around the globe. Each experience has been unique and special, but time spent with the Workes’, not only touched my heart, but served as an inspiration as to the bravery of others.  When I began putting the story together, I had to pause upon fully comprehending, that When the Abuse Stops was not simply their reality, but the ongoing story of their lives. We became friends during that brief period of time, I was and will always be grateful for their trust and for seeing them smile.

Thank you for sharing and for helping to give a voice to those often not heard. – ahtdoucette*

On May 23, 2014, Heather Workes passed away, stopping the downhill herself.

Heather, The time you spent in The Neighborhood, courageously telling your story and sharing your struggle, touched many lives. We will continue to search for answers, as to how to make it stop; and know that your memory here, will not soon be forgotten.  Rest in peace. The pleasure was ours.

Kirby, Please know, our hearts are with you, and the strength you have given others, we now return to you.

– The Neighborhood

*reader comments from past posts

in mourning

in memory of Heather Workes

All Around the World: An International Artists Collaborative of Expression

A bird does not sing because it has an answer
It sings because it has a song



Before the Storm
All Around the World; An International Artists Collaborative of Expression

recording artist: from Oslo, Norway, producer Drumma Battalion with 5AM in Oslo
visual artist: from Buenos Aires, Argentina, Martin Jimenez Tassara
written-word: Chinese Proverbs, unknown writer

A child’s life is like a piece of paper on which
every person leaves a mark

an international artist collaborative

Be not be afraid of growing slowly
be afraid only of standing still

an international artist collaborative

Dig the well before you are thirsty

international artist collaborative

Give a man a fish and you teach him for a day.
Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime

the neighborhood

On June 13….. we will all know
Our Featured Presentation: The Meaning of Life
debuts @ 12:01 a.m. PST, 9:01 a.m. CEST, 12:45 p.m. NPT

 

 

the State of BEing

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I believe one defines oneself by reinvention.
To not be like your parents,
To not be like your friends. 
To cut yourself out of stone.
– Henry Rollins

be yourself

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 the State of BEing
by Kendall F. Person, thepublicblogger

Be unique. Be original.
Be kind. Be giving and be free.
Be inventive. Take flight.
Be the one person, you have always wanted to be.
Be like your Mom or be like your Dad, if that is who you wish to be.
Be strong. Be humble. Be free.
Be the type of person that your kids would want to be.
Be an intellect. Be a clown. Be a daredevil. Be a smile.
Be emotional. Its okay to cry.
Be opinionated, but have an open mind.
Be an eagle and soar through the sky.
Be grounded, but never stop asking why.
Be the music. Be the song. Be the lyrics and be the voice that sings it all.
Be not afraid, to take a fall.
Be a friend, but not a fool.
Be a bridge and be the fire too.
Be stoic. Be proud. Be happy. Be sad.
Be a witness, but not a prophet.
Be committed to see it through.
Be a critic and be supportive too.
Be alive, until your last breath.
Be the past, be the present and be the future, as well.
But more than anything else….. just be yourself.

@ thepublicblogger.com, writing is a performance art and every post is a show. 

the night our bodies scorched the earth – Poetry on Fire series

Sex is emotion in motion. – Mae West

sexy

Right Now by Merrill Robinson from The Black Art Depot

the night our bodies scorched the earth…
by Kendall F. Person 

The fire only tempted my desire
I would have you last  for myself.
If there were lovers before me
then I would put in extra work
to make you scream only my name
with the touch of my skin. 
With the moon light fade
 the sunlight we will not see
but we could not stop
the night passion would scorch the earth.

We move from room to room
intertwined
shouting, moaning, groping
evading the crackling embers even as  the roof catches fire. 
Never do our bodies unbind
At all times, the tremblors never leave you
gasping in a constant state of eruption.
We make our last stand
under the cold waterfall
the last room the fire has not evaded nor conquered. 
Our lives pass before our eyes
only, reliving the past hours of our bodies on fire.
We scream from the pain
when the walls explode from strain
as the fire of our bodies engulfs the house.

But neither would regret 
our last night on earth
when our bodies scorched the earth. 

thepublicblogger.com, where writing is a performance art and every post is a show.

the Singing Caged Bird is Free

stanza from Maya Angelou’s anthem of a poem, Still I Rise
Out of the hut’s of history’s shame, I rise.
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain, I rise. 
I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide.
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide. 

maya angelou caged bird still sings

Maya Angelou, April 4, 1928 – May 28, 2014

It was in 1969, that the world would begin to ponder the question, Why does the caged bird sing? Maya Angelou was an accomplished performer way before then – a stage actress,  touring Europe in a production of the acclaimed Porgy and Bess, a songstress, recording her first  studio album in 1957, and a dancer, teaming up with the legendary Alvin Ailey, no less, scorching the streets in a calypso.  But in 1969, Maya Angelou would become a star. The release of the autobiographical I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings stunned the literary world, remaining on The New York Times bestsellers list for two years. A revealing look into a challenged life of a young African American woman, battling racism and nearly succumbing to the trauma of rape. And while the subject matter was the foundation of Caged Bird, it was her breathtaking style of writing that would captivate generations.  Its poetic flow and literary nuances, added such depth to the raw, non fictional story, that was her childhood life, made it read more like a sweeping epic and felt like a tragic symphony, with a promising end.

Maya Angelou’s  Insomnia
There are some nights when
sleep plays coy,
aloof and disdainful.
And all the wiles
that I employ to win
its service to my side
are useless as wounded pride,
and much more painful.

Maya Angelou’s rise in stature was neither forced nor  free. She would accept every challenge. An activist during the civil rights era and a voice of the Women’s Rights Movement, but she understood what her contribution to society would be, and embraced the mastery of words, delivering them as gifts of strength, perseverance, truth and life to each of us. She understood the importance of the written-word and how it could transform sorrow into fight, and how it could uplift the soul, giving reason to hold on, even when  there seemed to be no reason to do so at all. I can still hear, as I stood  among a million men in Washington, D.C., her majestic voice floating in midair, capturing our attention in a rhythmic dance, forcing us all to take notice. Not just in her words – historic and strong as they were, but to give assurances, that we remembered she was there.

excerpt from Maya Angelou’s Million Man March Poem 
Clap hands, let us come together and reveal our hearts,
Let us come together and revise our spirits,
Let us come together and cleanse our souls,
Clap hands, let’s leave the preening
And stop impostering our own history.
Clap hands, call the spirits back from the ledge,
Clap hands, let us invite joy into our conversation,
Courtesy into our bedrooms,
Gentleness into our kitchen,
Care into our nursery.

Maya Angelou will always be remembered because she is everywhere. Her legacy of words, her fight for equal rights, her courage in battling through severe childhood trauma, her deliverance of  On the Pulse of Morning at the Presidential Inauguration of William Jefferson Clinton,  her regal display of humility as an icon of literature, and her calmness in accepting the 2011 Presidential Medal of Freedom, from the nation’s first Black President, even though, the knowing, that her life had come full-circle, must have been overwhelming.

Why does the caged bird sing? That is a question that every man and every woman must answer for themselves, because we sing at different times and for different reasons. But, do not waste too much time thinking about that caged bird. Find out what makes you sing and do it every day.** But if and when we understand the meaning of our life, and fear attempts to invade our happy space, read a poem left behind by Maya Angelou, not just for its literary value, of which it is great, but for the tranquility in the passing of the baton in the circle of life, for we will be holding a contribution from a legend.

– Kendall F. Person, thepublicblogger

** {except from Kendall F. Person’s An Angry World}